Category Archives: Life Coaching: Be Your Own or Becoming

A Mindset of Love and Being Slow to Anger.

By Charles Barnard What parent hasn’t struggled trying to be slow to anger when dealing with their child who has entered either the terrible twos or theocratic threes? Being a parent provides numerous trials and tribulations and without a mindset of love parenting can become very toxic for you and your child. If you trulyContinue reading “A Mindset of Love and Being Slow to Anger.”

Love is not Self-Seeking

By Charles Barnard The next character trait of love that would be trained is another negative. Love is not self-seeking. Again, to train this you need to train yourself to regularly look at your motives. Are you trying to serve someone else or are you trying to serve yourself? The cynic believes it is aContinue reading “Love is not Self-Seeking”

Love Does Not Dishonor

By Charles Barnard The next love characteristic is still another of the negatives. We have love is not envious. Love is not boastful. Love is not proud, among others. Today, we will look at love does not dishonor others. Again, while it is important to not dishonor others, we do need to understand what theContinue reading “Love Does Not Dishonor”

Develop a Mindset of Love

By Charles Barnard If you are serious about learning and understanding the nature of success and achievement and fulfillment, you need to understand why a love or loving mindset is vital. If we are honest with ourselves, it really should not be surprising that a love mindset would be the foundation upon which our successContinue reading “Develop a Mindset of Love”

Patience is a Virtue

By Charles Barnard Once you have begun to develop habits, have some emotional management skills, cleared up your past and cleaned up and clarified your attitude, you are well-prepared for purposefully building a mindset. By building a mindset, I am referring to creating the beliefs, aligning the values, building the attitude, and further developing habitsContinue reading “Patience is a Virtue”

Repetitive Thinking and Your Mindset

By Chuck Barnard If you find yourself thinking repetitive thoughts and those thoughts are negative, meaning they have negative emotions attached to them and or negative beliefs attached to them – usually both, you are impacting your biochemistry. Holding onto negative emotions is not good for your health and certainly repetitively thinking thoughts that areContinue reading “Repetitive Thinking and Your Mindset”

SMART Goals and Your Mindset

By Charles Barnard Most professionals have been exposed to the SMART goal setting model, but according to studies only about three percent of people actually set goals and maybe one percent actually write them down. Of those who set goals research indicates that only 8% achieve them. If people are exposed to how to setContinue reading “SMART Goals and Your Mindset”

The Value of Achieving Goals or Dreams; The Value of a Growth Mindset

By Charles Barnard You try something unsuccessfully over and over and over again, but then you finally accomplish it. After that it comes easy. How valuable is that experience? How valuable is each “failure” and then that final breakthrough? Could it be… priceless? “There are some things money can’t buy, for everything else there isContinue reading “The Value of Achieving Goals or Dreams; The Value of a Growth Mindset”

Conquering Fear, Breeding Success

By Charles Barnard The alarm went off. A deep sigh, and the first words to enter his mind were, “Good God, its morning already.” He felt tempted to throw his phone out the window rather than just hit the snooze button as was his habit. Before the alarm went off for a second time cameContinue reading “Conquering Fear, Breeding Success”